It seems for a while, especially in certain regions and areas, men have been taking women to dinner. Also for a while, it appears that many women don't clean their plate or even take home leftovers.
This can be problematic for a number of reasons.
Women, please read carefully. Now in the early stages of dating, nerves are expected and often eating isn't the main coursr at a restaurant. However, eventually, you should feel comfortable enough around a man to eat, REALLY eat, and not feel shameful about it.
Being a member of the clean plate club can have its benefits. We men like women that are secure in themselves and their own skin. That being said, this doesn't mean pigging out and ignoring table manners. But if you're hungry, eat!
Bringing leftovers is the least you can do. I understand many people don't eat a lot at a single setting. However, it can be rude and expensive if you continuously want your significant other taking you out for dinner, but you simply nibble around. Perhaps you should simply stick to appetizers or stay at home and cook.
You will have to reach a point of comfort in a romantic relationship. This can start with simply making an effort at the dinner table and eating if you're hungry. It can humanize you more.
Do you have this problem on dates? When it comes to dating, are you in the clean plate club?
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