We encounter many different types of friends in our lives. Some are very loyal, always down with us. Others serve different purposes, and we know the role they play in our lives. Which type of friend are you to a certain person? Everyone can't be #1 to everyone, that's just the way of the world.
1. Old homies/best friends.
You have a long history with these friends. They know you better than you know yourself. You all may still hang out, but you may not because of proximity, work schedules, etc. However, it seems when you do all hang out or talk, nothing is lost. You simply pick back up where you left off.
2. Hang Out/Partying Friends
These are simply the friends you have wild times with. Parties, bonfires, drinking, smoking, clubbing, etc. Their devotion is really tested, however, when one needs bail money.
3. Business/Work.
You know each other through work and spend a lot of time mostly because of that. You may hang out, go to dinner and do fun stuff together. However, outside of business at hand, there isn't much in common.
4. Hook Up/Connections
These are your friends with all the connections on everything from EBT to hotel rooms and other vacation amenities. They know or are your mechanics and fix it folk. They basically help you obtain things at a free or a discounted price. They are also good for a job reference or even giving you extra work.
5. Opposite Sex Friends (minus the benefits).
These friends serve many purposes. You may be able to talk to them easier about things that your same sex friends wouldn't understand. They give you the point of view from the opposite sex. They also may be good either as a connection friend also, or a mother/father figure.
6. Simply Virtual Friends.
These are friends that you communicate with primarily through social media. You don't really hang out with them, and you may not know them in real life. However, you all have awesome conversations and discussions over status updates, hot button topics, and pictures.
7. Friends That Are Like Fam.
Similar to #1, these are your elite friends. They are closer than a friend. They are more like a brother or a sister. You can count on them for anything and they won't betray you. You could have known them for a couple of years or decades but they are there for the long haul.
8. Frenemies (Fake Friends)
We have many people in life that we entertain briefly, mostly to be polite. There is no real friendship. You may have a mutual friend, connection or interest. That is basically it. This isn't the person you call over to watch the game with, or have a drink.
9. Activity Friends.
These may be the friends that you see the most, as they are the ones who are at the activities you partake in the most. Parties, cookouts, church, sporting events, and even vacations. These are who you do all your fun stuff with, often for convenience or mutual love for the same thing. Good friendships can be built from these fun activities.
10. Down For Anything, Beat Down friends.
These are the ones you call or contact when you feel in harm's way. They will be there on the double to protect you. Some of them aren't even afraid to go to jail for you. If someone is threatening you or whatever, they have your back and your front. They are like your team.
Friends come and go, in most categories and instances. Again, know which roles they have in your lives, and the ones to draw closest to.
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