It seems women have a lot of hard feelings when they choose the wrong mate, or when their "perfect" mate wrongs them. It appears they are acting out a scene from "Waiting To Exhale" , then they often punish the next guy that shows interest.
Women, please listen to me for a few minutes. Not all men are perfect, but not all men are bad. Often when things go south, it's not always the man or men in general. You have to keep things in perspective and know when and where you have went wrong also. It's not an easy thing, but after a while, you must look at your own choices.
The simple definition of insanity is "doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result. " When you date the same quality or pedigree of man, you can only expect equal treatment. You must look elsewhere. Try a different type of man: one that is more gentle, from a different background than yourself, an humble man, or even one of a different race. Either way, spice things up.
Also, keep your heart open and love yourself fully. How can you expect to give your love to someone else if you aren't sure of yourself and at peace?
Next, please stop trying to make a man into a project. You are not Jesus, so don't try to work miracles. Changing a grown - up man takes too much work, work that is often for naught. Accept a person as they are and add to their life, rather than take away or rebuild it.
The bottom line is ladies: be BETTER! You have to be what you want to attract. You may have a great job, a fine education, and are extremely attractive. However, you must also bring an open, compassionate heart and mind to the table and not baggage from your past. Let that go.
You can win in the game of love my females. However please stop with all the man bashing. This isn't a reality show or a Tyler Perry movie. Life is real and we should all be real and true with it, and our hearts.
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