Valentine's Day is the one holiday that tries and make single folks feel bad about being single. It is the day that ultimately spawned cuffing season (explained in another blog.).
However, if you're single, things aren't all bad. Many people are unspoken for by choice. Some do not need to be committed to anyone period. Either way, the day is supposed to be about loving each other, not just our significant other.
Another point here is that one must be able to fully love themselves before they can expect another person to accept their love. This can take a lot of work and there should be no timetable on this.
Also, society in general tries to force people together. This goes from the churches, the workplace and even the economy. In their eyes, getting married and having a family keeps the country populated and keeps commerce flowing. Families do spend more money than single folks statistically.
Despite all of this, enjoy the single life and don't let any factors sway you from it. Work on yourself, learn to love, spend more time with close friends and family and soak in the benefits. Oftentimes the best person to be around is yourself.
Now if you do not truly want to be single, that's a different story. Either way, live in the moment and take every change and scenario as they come along.
When Valentine's Day comes, give of yourself. Participate in social and church activities, chaperone a children's party or dance, and simply make extra time for yourself as you would your partner.
I'm not saying to give up on love, or even marry yourself. Simply enjoy your current state of life. Today is a gift, the present.
Remember biblical scholars, everyone is not meant to have someone. Paul never married for instance.
What are your feelings towards single folks? Do you believe there is someone for everyone?
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