Once upon a time, men were REAL men. They handled their own, took care of home, were strong and protective, and showed little to no emotion. Now in 2012, it seems that is long gone. Many men are so emotional, whiny, and feminine. I blame many factors: lack of a dominant male role model, and pop culture. Drake's whiny lyrics, plus guys wearing skinny jeans have helped to soften up this new crop of men.
Metrosexuality became a craze about nine years ago. Straight men were wearing pink, getting manicures and pedicures, and simply showing a sensitive side. That isn't so bad. It's when they start acting like they are on their period, crying for no reason, and just not properly stepping up to the plate as a man.
Now what should a REAL man do and how much emotion should he show? Well, I have already listed a few traits. Also, this guy must protect, show confidence, and have good rational, aggressive decision making skills. It's fine to show some emotion and even cook, buy feminine products for their ladies, and dress nice. However, balance all of that with controlling and moderating your emotions, being strong physically, mentally and emotionally. Also, show some old school machismo. Don't put down women for being non-traditional, but know your role and play it well. You don't have to be a thug or roughhouse, but stand tall and don't be anyone's doormat. Also, whine less and be more of a man of action.
Real men are simply rocks under pressure, period. Think Clint Eastwood, Burt Reynolds, or even the abrasive Samuel L. Jackson. Women want a man in their lives, not a baby boy they have to raise. A real woman will not do that. They will tell you to go to your mom or dad for that.
So fellas, chill with the excessive crying and whining. It really isn't cool. Women will not always admit it, but they do not want their equal. Stay out of the mirror and dry your eyes. They want to be in control not necessarily of them, but situations. They want you to be able to handle your emotions and theirs.
No one is perfect, but that doesn't mean you should strive to be the best balanced man possible. That certainly doesn't include showing more emotion than masculinality. A healthy, man friendly balance is necessary.
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