The Deck at 260 Volume 53

Back after a six day layoff and transitioning to another work shift. Gaffney Homecoming is on the horizon (which we will be discussing, Halloween in 2 weeks)  

Aja v Moore, Homecoming battle, Buffie the Body, Doing Life, Clover v Lake Wylie, roller coasters

A'ja Wilson won her 3rd consecutive league MVP and fifth overall. She won't win a WNBA championship this season but now the GOAT talk intensifies with the likes of Cheryl Swoopes, Maya Moore, etc (CC and Angel Reese haven't been playing long enough yet, give them time). 

Gaffney Homecoming (Gaffney's birthday) is this week/weekend. It's always a huge event that spans 2-3 days. It has even prompted the city of Gaffney to require those having adjoining cookouts within town limits to obtain a permit from the city (another topic). It's always a debate whether who in SC has the better high school Homecoming: Gaffney or Wilson? It seems it depends whether you're from the Upstate or the Pee Dee. I debated with two Gaffney guys I knew (and a woman I had never met). I brought in a source: someone that had worked in both areas. Now what started as a good natured debate nearly turned ugly. I will just say this, you can like what you want to like (especially since it's your school). However my brain has a difficult time processing the words "no high school Homecoming is better than ours." Don't worry Gaffney faithful, I tell Wilson folks this also. I hope to make it to a Wilson Homecoming next year or soon after because I truly enjoy Gaffney's Homecoming.  I am just not going to say it's the best Homecoming. Best in football or peaches, you have numbers to back that claim up. 

2000s video vixen Buffie the Body has come out basically saying she concealed her age during her modeling era and actually is in her 60s perhaps 50s at youngest. I want to know why everyone is pressed about that interview? Buffie is still a social media and YouTube sensation with her workouts and landscaping (fully clothed these days and happily married). This isn't whether or not Buffie said that to get her former audience's attention.  It's whether or not you were tuning in and why does her age matter? 

Netflix/Tyler Perry seem to be on a streak that may last the remainder of the year. Doing Life was one of those movies I might pay to see in the theater and I watched it twice. It makes a person believe in love again despite loose storyline holes. I would definitely like to see a sequel since Carousel and Anika became such a great couple. It's awesome when two folks can let their "hands off the brakes", and follow their hearts. 

The most exciting part about the weekend in my area had to be the inaugural Clover/Lake Wylie football game. I had a competing priority or I would have been there. To see the community come together through the pictures and videos was beautiful. The town of Clover is so near and dear to my heart and Lake Wylie has grown so much the past 20 years.  I cannot wait until both teams are more evenly matched and we have games like we see in Rock Hill and Spartanburg.  

I have been dropping a lot of weight the past year but I am still not below 300 yet. That means I haven't ridden a roller coaster since 2019. Given how often the rides at Carowinds stay broken down (a friend of #imjustdrew Josh Erwin actually got stuck on a roller coaster back in the summer) and the recent death of the man at Six Flags Over Georgia I can wait on the roller coasters. I am excited to get back into the 200s but I'll hold off on riding these rides. 

Ok although I will be working I will give a recap of Gaffney Homecoming.  Hopefully I can do it in a civil manner because I know folks will be cutting up on and off social media. 

The Deck at 260: Volume 51 (October is here)

There's no debating what my favorite month of the year is. Here we go with an exciting 4 weeks! 

-Shane Beamer

- High School Football

- Christina Pike

- Lindsay Clancy (again)

- Fair season

- MLB playoffs

- Blacksburg small town support

Ok this one is fresh off the press. I was just thinking also when Steve Spurrier's run was over and how he stepped down to avoid the inevitable. While I'm watching Clemson v Miami and Dabo is far from being out of the woods, Shane Beamer is underachieving higher. 3 straight SEC losses now, the latest allowing Kentucky to rally at home. I think it's time for Dabo, Beamer and Sellars to all hang it up.  

High school football is also heating up as every team is now in region play. Gaffney is in probably their most favorite region slate in decades. Blacksburg's is favorable for the size but not the travel. Gaffney will need to avoid letdowns so they can play at home in the playoffs as much as possible.  Blacksburg will need to keep up the momentum going into the finale against Fairfield Central. Clover v Lake Wylie is this week. It's one of the games I want to see real bad. It's also my 30th year high school reunion (can't miss that). 

Christina Pike is a WTHeck story.  She beats lethal injection twice and is now on a ventilator.  If she does get off the vent, does the death penalty debate go on further? In Pike's case she dehydrated herself, turned down her last meal. Medical professionals are saying that thickened her veins allowing the poison to not infect her. 

Lindsay Clancy is turning out to be a trial of the century. I'm here for this as it appears the husband definitely did it, is already remarried with a child on the way. Notice when I talk about about how crooked the justice system is I do go beyond race. I place extra emphasis when it's a racial matter. In this case, Clancy's husband has a much superior lawyer. 

Fair season is here, I've been to the Cleveland County Fair and it's still the best fair around. Only debate is do you go at day or night? For me the fair is always best at night although during the day on a weekday you don't see many people. I'm just glad I'm keeping this tradition going for myself. 

The MLB playoffs roll on as the Atlanta Braves are still in it. I want them to beat the Dodgers so bad. We owned them in the regular season but Shotani wasn't at his best. Now our bullpen is thin. 

Ok Parkin Latte in Blacksburg had a promotion in partnership with El Vacquerito across the street between 9am-11am to give away free coffee.  Mind you, Parkin Latte's slowest time have been after 9am and there have been talks from ownership on pulling the plug on the Blacksburg location and focusing on Clover. National Coffee Day is another indicator. Parkin had 215 customers between 9-11am. I think one of the staff said they do good to get 40 in that normal time frame.  It's definitely not the hours in Blacksburg, it's a failure to show support. I promise you if/when businesses like Parkin Latte go due to this, the locals will not hear the end of it from me. 

Until next week! 

The Deck at 260 Volume 50: 25 Years post 9/11

It's hard to believe we've been on the deck 50 times talking about various topics. 25 years since 9/11 is a lot. I'm starting to realize that many young adults weren't even born yet. 

DaBaby restaurant (No Knife),  new shows, RareUSA growth, Why Did I Get Married Again, Another 7Brew

Charlotte folks and surrounding are not only crowding DaBaby's new restaurant No Knife, they are criticizing the prices. First of all, it's Charlotte and a celebrity. It's not going to be hole in the wall, grease stain prices. 2nd, it's clear many of you don't go out to breakfast/brunch near as much as unk and I do. I've seen cheaper but in this market this is average. Everything is expensive especially when you're getting $10 coffees daily. Some of you don't know how to save, cook, etc and it's showing. 

The new Fall shows are here and coming. It's a far cry from when the new Fall lineups were the thing post Labor Day. I personally prefer seeing the new shows premiere in the Fall and the favorites/popular shows in the Spring when there's less interruption due to sweeps. I am definitely interested in The Drop-Off since I'm a Snowfall fan. Football is back of course and I always coordinate my TV show watches around Thursday-Sundays. 

The growth in Blacksburg continues with RareUSA coming soon and at least 500 jobs expected. This is big especially if you're a commuter like myself. I don't plan on leaving Amazon at the moment but for those that have 30 minute and greater commutes this is huge. It's also big for the small businesses. They can get greater support with more residents working locally. It seems the older generation is pushing back as always. They need to realize that if the town doesn't grow soon it will quickly turn into Hickory Grove or Sharon. Granted we don't want to be Lake Wylie, Rock Hill or Fort Mill but we want to be in between also. Gaffney and Clover are facing similar.  The mills are long gone, we need something locally.  

One thing we don't need is another 7Brew. Dang these are coming everywhere and as a coffee fiend I don't see the hype.  They apparently have a special every 7th of the month. They are definitely coming for Starbucks bit by bit. I won't lie I thought it would be Scooters or Dutch Bros. 7Brew appears to have more versatility.  Some complain of the prices at No Knife but aren't going to miss out on 7Brew. 

I actually enjoyed Why Did I Get Married Again. Tarajii's presence in Janet's absence was huge, Mike is that friend you love from a distance, keeping in secrets and toxicity for so long is rarely healthy, mid life crisis is real and there were clear storyline holes.  I'm glad they pulled it off although I wouldn't have minded had it waited until Thanksgiving to release. 

It may be officially Fall for episode 51!

The Deck at 260 Volume 49 (Ber Months are here)

Flock cameras, Death of a Pastors Wife, college players returning, Lindsay Clancy, Clover demographics changing, Dabo, Michigan last night

I honestly didn't realize these were a thing until my uncle was mentioning them. I don't see them as bad unless taxes go up to fund them. We have so many methods of tracking a person's location and honestly there is a lot of damage someone can do with a license plate number. Therefore if you're one of the ones freaking out over them trust there are bigger fish to be fried.  

This miniseries continues to have people thinking and talking. Pastor JP Scott is very much that dark manipulator that uses the pulpit to justify his lust, sex addiction and sinful nature. He is a joke and I pray for anyone that still listens and believes him.  I would definitely watch out if I am Suzie his current wife. God has not visibly changed this man and he will only damage her and others. 

I think it's despicable that college football players can try out for NFL teams, get cut and still return to college football. Where is the clause/agreement that ends your college career? Lane Kifflin already gets enough of the wrong attention at times. He can begin his career at LSU on the right foot after not fostering these two former players and not even playing them at all. The education part is an admissions deal which is a different pickle altogether. 

Ok the Lindsay Clancy deal has really grown legs. Why is no one closely examining the husband here? I've been said the legal system as a whole is flawed and often useless. Unless there is evidence that Lindsay did unalive her children I am glad she walks free (no racial debate today although we already know how the other shoe deal works). Someone needs to be held accountable though. The lack of accountability with this case and with Mica Miller's and countless others is what gets me. 

Clover and Lake Wylie are now not only two separate towns and communities they are now two separate high schools. That was never more evident Friday night at Clover's home opener. Clover has more diversity in nearly every way: fans, student body, cheerleaders, football team, etc. Basically you don't have the more affluent white players and fans anymore since they're all at Lake Wylie High now. I'm not saying this is good or bad, it's just noticeable. Clover is a small town similar to a Blacksburg, York, Chesnee, Kings Mountain, etc. There just seems to be a more involved community that doesn't include just white people.  I do know the Black community has been strong and proud for decades (many of those being my relatives). It will be very interesting long term as athletes will have the option to transfer to Lake Wylie High and vice versa for their athletes. 

Dabo Swinney has reached the end, period. He has failed to adapt to the current landscape of college football. Yes we all know LSU is a great program especially at home on a Saturday night.  However this has been coming for about 4 years now. I don't think he makes it to October let alone the South Carolina game with another beat down like that. Looking at the schedule, there are at least two other teams that on paper could administer the same type of blowout and in Clemson. 

Finally I'm unsure what voodoo Michigan has at the Big House.  Was it paid off? Did someone legitimately make a mistake? Were they trying to prevent another App State upset? Either way I want someone with good sense to convince me how they were able to put 1 more second on the game clock, run another play and win? Michigan can't win them all doing that. 

Bring on Fall! 

The Deck at 260 Volume 48

Whew doggies what a day/week/month on the deck! Is it really almost September/end of summer?

TX Roadhouse, Hayden, Labor Day weekend, Clover v Lake Wylie, college football , Dalton and Saco, Dolly Parton, other deaths, Penn State

Ok this Texas Roadhouse deal has been getting overblown. I haven't seen a single report of it's a collective deal or exactly which restaurants are doing this to Black people's fold. You all know by know I stand strongly for the cause. However those that haven't worked in a restaurant nor been in a restaurant kitchen don't realize how nasty that food truly is. I detached from Roadhouse a while ago (those rolls are still some of the best though!) and have went to Longhorn. More locations, less crowded, better steaks (that Tomahawk) and a more versatile menu.

We're in another run of celebrity deaths. It started with Hayden Panteriee and it's gone to Eddie Kane, Dolly Parton, the voice of Optimus Prime, the drummer from ZZ Top and even Tim Curry. Dolly is definitely the most notable. Dolly really stood for the cause and supported ALL human beings! You better believe when I get back to my race relations activism Aunt Dolly will be referenced. No negative comments will be tolerated! 

It always feels weird when the first Monday in September is on the 2nd week of the month. Labor Day weekend is still a month out. I'm preparing the best I can as I will have a more odd weekend than usual. 

The Clover School District has two high schools for the first time in history: Clover and Lake Wylie. They are sharing a stadium in the interim and are now arguing about how the colors on the field should be. It should be equal on the field and even highlighted with Lake Wylie flags during their home games. There's no mistaking that this is Clover's stadium, has been for years. You can represent the new school without taking the traditions from the current one! I wish I could attend the inaugural game but I have my 30 year high school reunion that weekend!

College football is slowly kicking off and now you have players that tried to walk on to an NFL team or went undrafted, were released and reenrolling in college due to a transfer portal loophole. This definitely needs to be addressed as there are obvious violations. I knew there would be mass issues if the transfer portal wasn't clear enough.

Who else is sick of Dalton and Sako? I'm good with influencers. Many have become like reality TV stars and it's getting sickening.  

Speaking of race relations, the Penn State scandal is wild. We all know that if this was at an HBCU the sanctions and scrutiny would be worse. People really need to learn and practice confirmation bias and realize the playing field is not level. 

Finally Dolly Parton was a national treasure. Her death hits the hardest for many. I do also appreciate the jokes with "boobs at half mast". We all need to strive to be more like Dolly. 

See you in September!

The Deck at 260 Volume 47

School's almost back in session, football is backb more rain and hot weather but we don't stop at The Deck. It's just damp is all.

Zakarys/Boston Annies/small businesses 

June Fair murder

Shealys BBQ review and better spots

Gnat removal

WU in more trouble?

I do hate to see small businesses suffer. Summer is already the toughest due to folks being out of town for vacation. Boston Annie's has went from rough kitchen repairs that the city of Gaffney doesn't support. She went from trying to raise money to get a food truck to getting ready to go home to Boston. She and her awesome food will be missed (I never got to take unk there, I'm sure he would have loved the stews). Zakary's coffee shop is going through similar. Low support, Duke Power (how are they still around?) not responding to maintenance requests but charging them as much as they do the nearby multimillion dollar hospital for utilities. I don't frequent Zakarys: however I do realize them and Boston Annie's were not only hallmarks of downtown Gaffney for a period, they were fueled by the Limestone College community.  This is another ripple effect of Limestone College closing. I do pray for Annie in her next journey back home and that Zakarys can find a way to turn it around. 

This murder of young June Fair in Gaffney has hit me and the community really hard and close (nevermind he's a distant cousin of mine and I've come to know his mom and those over the years). First is of course the gun violence deal. 2nd is that kids do not fight anymore. What Pops from Friday said is becoming more and more true. 3. Some people around the county and state are so evil, racist and sad. Either way, a young man is gone, two more are headed to prison. I do love the action being taken in the moment to take care of both the funeral expenses and his unborn son. I also like that community members aren't giving up on resources and support to mitigate this violence from continuing. We have to start somewhere. 

I have heard for weeks (especially after I had Marilyn Martin on the podcast) about Shealys BBQ. I wanted to go the week I was off and try them but it was right after the 4th of July and they always close for two weeks afterwards. I decided to try them this past Thursday, made the trip through secondary roads and the Midlands region of South Carolina.  I did like a lot of the esthetic: a sink and towel to wash your hands upon entry, affordable buffet, ample parking and communal big tables. They had a nice salad bar, soft serve ice cream and dessert bar. However their regular food was underwhelming. Most of the stuff was cafeteria style, not homemade tasting nor smelling. That had to be the worse looking and tasting mac n cheese I've had. The hash looked runny and gross. The BBQ (all 3 kinds) did not taste smoked and had too much vinegar. It was like Wades: overhyped due to reputation and location. I do not like when places like this (Harolds, Beacon, etc) do not live up to the hype.  The chicken was good and the staff was kind and courteous though. I know many other BBQ/country cooking places I would recommend before Shealys. It is my opinion but I also feel like I know what good should look and taste like. 

I've dealt with many issues in this 33 year old home, currently on the end of my home improvement upgrades. The current challenge is getting rid of these gnats. I have cleaned house (will do more tonight), followed recommendations online. They appear to be coming from my bathroom, likely from all of these storms. I also have a toilet in the other bathroom that will not flush. Ahh the challenges of home ownership and with an older home. 

It appears at Winthrop University (the WU) there is financial difficulties. These are to the tune of $100,000 from normal projected donations.  Many minority alums are not happy about what's been happening and are refusing to donate (myself included). It's truly sad, I love my school and my time there. However the board needs to get this together and show us minorities they care and they do stand for diversity.  

Until next time. 

The Deck Volume 46 (The I Plead the 5th Edition)

Alright now, it's feeling cool on the Deck for the 2nd straight end of July/firdt of August!  The deck and life feels better with Fall and football just around the corner. 

Fauci, Odyssey, bonnets, All Star weekend recaps, back to school giveaways parasite

Ok by now most know about Dr. Fauci pleading the 5th during the COVID/CDC hearings. Even those that took the vaccine/followed COVID protocols knew Fauci was full of it, likely was behind creating it and an opportunist. I don't know many that dispute that. What is also disputed (I'm so over talking about it) is the way the USA handled the COVID pandemic. Dr. Fauci was again an opportunist. We all should always do our due diligence. Trust but verify. 

The Odyssey as well as the newest Spiderman are currently the biggest in the theaters right now. Everytime I get ready to drop Regal Unlimited a new string of good movies comes out. Now far as historical accuracy (specifically involving race), we were not there. We do not know whom looked like who. We can ascertain based on the area and ancestors but we cannot say that everyone was white. It goes back to Cleopatra, Napoleon, Beetoven, even Jesus Christ. 

The bonnet/durag debate at HBCUs has definitely heated up the socials lately.  I'm going to say this as a former college student and a current manager that's enforcing dress codes. Dress for the occasion, use common sense and good judgment to know when it's appropriate to cover your heads, put on a decent T-shirt and show some class. I dressed down much of my college experience in the classroom and residence halls. You better believe I dressed differently when I went to administrative offices, meetings and especially the Cafe at 615pm (if you went to the WU in the 90s you know!). I'm currently in the middle of a fashion makeover and if these are things you don't know naturally know then the rules must be stricter. I'm a heterosexual man and honestly I get sick of seeing young women with booty shorts and basically their bras. There is a time and place for everything. 

All-Star weekend in Gaffney was again a success.  It doesn't seem like the crowds came like they have in the past. You all know I can be critical of events and event planners. However I don't think this was all on them. It's the crowds as well. These guys and the community have been very consistent, successful and I'm confident adjustments and improvements will continue to be made. One thing would be to lower the amount of games, announce the dates further in advance and possibly even do a 2 day game pass instead of so much for each day. People genuinely want to see the games but with back to school so early this year there is a choice to be made. 

Speaking of back to school, it is so early this year! I'm not used to this. I have to adjust my commutes and traffic patterns. Also I didn't really prepare properly to give to back to school drives also due to a busy July (my birthday month plus busy stuff at work).  I'll continue to post on this throughout the month but it is taking summer away from the children and staff members.  Unless they're getting multiple days off like years past.

It appears the food parasite is starting to pass us by. It hit ginger ale, lettuce and then bacon. Most I know that got sick (myself included) appear to be recovering.  We should always take heed in which foods we trust.